I have always believed that my next door neighbour is weird
and both Chin and I think that they're sort of 'free' with
their kids...or rather
their kids are free to roam anywhere...
I wrote about them before under the title
'children from hell' if i'm not mistaken...
Chin has been telling me that the husband is sometimes kinda
weird...sending sms out of nowhere
and with sometimes kinda...weird...statements...
But i always told Chin to not have a suspicious mind....
me, being a positive person, and well...
since they are neighbour...so i thought maybe it's his
way of trying to be neighbourly....
But what happened last weekend totally changed my mind...
even the most POSITIVE person would be
suspicious....hmmmm.....
you tell me what you think after you read this...
Anyway...i like to buy cheap cloths in Nilai or Casa Moda
near my house to make baju kurung for work...
and since my neighbour can sew baju kurung...
i send these materials to her...
and she only cahrged me RM25...cheap...
So...last weekend she told me she lost my measurement...
and that she'd like to measure my baju kurung or something like
that...
so last Friday evening....she sms me...
and i thought she asked me to go over to get measured...
but i discovered that she just wanted to initiate small talks...
so being the next door neighbour and she being a teacher...
i though...what the heck...
I gave her my hp no because i wanted to go to SM Teknik Port dickson
some weeks ago...and i thought it convenient
to contact her should i need to ask her for direction...
So...i replied her sms...talking about nothing in particular...
mostly about her car...and other common stuff...
then...she asked about Chin and I not having children...
so i gave the usual standard answer that i gave
everyone that i am not so close with...
then she mentioned about her children...and then...i made a
general comment...being non-committal and not too personal..
(heck...i just know her as my neighbour...okay...)
Then...suddenly she started to talk about her sex life...
at first it wasn't so obvious...
just the usual feeling of uncomfyness when 'making love'
to her hubby....(i assumed making love is sex)...
so i didn't make any comment about that...
just stating that women are complicated species...since all the vital
conception organs are hidden and stuff...
Then...she made some explicit comment...
which to me is OFFENSIVE....
Hello...i don't want to know about your sex life okay...
i see you like once in a while...and i do not
want to have unwelcome images in my mind every time i see you...
and your hubby....
but i get the feeling that she's trying to get me to be involved in some
dirty talks....
i chose to ignore the first sms hoping that she would
stop if i did not reply or take up
the banter...
i stick to other topics instead...about SM Teknik PD for instance...
but each time she would divert to that OFFENSIVE topic...
arrgghhh....i was getting sooooo uneasy about the whole thing...
But thinking that she's my neighbour...
i chose to ignore it...and didn't reply to the sms...
I was shocked when she quoted the 'big and long' words about her
other half....
and then...out of no where....
the number of times she *c....x* and how her other half
is slow to do so...
(i assumed that's what it was when she used the word 'keluar')
and having s...x with a certain race is so good because of
them being circumcised....
My eyes nearly popped out....
Gosh...i feel offended because she thinks that
i am comfortable reading about her sex life...
i nearly replied saying...have you even tried other people since
you are only married to ur hubby?
Bed said i should have done that....
(she being the fierce, outspoken lady that she is, bless her)
Well...i felt defiled...harassed even....
it is a form of sexual harassment surely....
before she went to bed she bade me goodnite...
so i did the same...
and that brief reply got another sexually suggestive statement...
'Tina...esok malam minggu...ahad tak kerja...
tak buat project ke...hehee...'
I was so indignant...
Chin was angry when i told him about the little episode...
i was apprehensive to tell him...
because to me...such thing should be kept private...
between the husband and wife...
we are after all...living in the east....
and we do not condone to talking about sex freely in such manner...
I am an openminded person ...yes...but...i stil feel that
what happen between husband and wife is sacred....
and should be kept that way...
This is not New York, for heaven sake...
and we are definitely NOT desperate housewives....
or sex and the city casts....
We especially do not share this kind of info with a casual
aquaintance...someone on nodding term...
and not hugging term....
Haih....Chin told me the next time she does that again...
just tell her off....
I would if she even dares to be explicit again...
and yesterday...she asked me about the baju kurung that she
had sewn...
i said it fits nicely...not too big and not too small...
and she could even use that statement to suggest something
sexual...or was it my suspicious mind that works overtime...
but tell me what u think of this...
'k, tina, besar sikit lagi best...hehe...'
Was i right to be suspicious....or is she merely referring to
my baju kurung size..
Do i read too much into that final statement?
and both Chin and I think that they're sort of 'free' with
their kids...or rather
their kids are free to roam anywhere...
I wrote about them before under the title
'children from hell' if i'm not mistaken...
Chin has been telling me that the husband is sometimes kinda
weird...sending sms out of nowhere
and with sometimes kinda...weird...statements...
But i always told Chin to not have a suspicious mind....
me, being a positive person, and well...
since they are neighbour...so i thought maybe it's his
way of trying to be neighbourly....
But what happened last weekend totally changed my mind...
even the most POSITIVE person would be
suspicious....hmmmm.....
you tell me what you think after you read this...
Anyway...i like to buy cheap cloths in Nilai or Casa Moda
near my house to make baju kurung for work...
and since my neighbour can sew baju kurung...
i send these materials to her...
and she only cahrged me RM25...cheap...
So...last weekend she told me she lost my measurement...
and that she'd like to measure my baju kurung or something like
that...
so last Friday evening....she sms me...
and i thought she asked me to go over to get measured...
but i discovered that she just wanted to initiate small talks...
so being the next door neighbour and she being a teacher...
i though...what the heck...
I gave her my hp no because i wanted to go to SM Teknik Port dickson
some weeks ago...and i thought it convenient
to contact her should i need to ask her for direction...
So...i replied her sms...talking about nothing in particular...
mostly about her car...and other common stuff...
then...she asked about Chin and I not having children...
so i gave the usual standard answer that i gave
everyone that i am not so close with...
then she mentioned about her children...and then...i made a
general comment...being non-committal and not too personal..
(heck...i just know her as my neighbour...okay...)
Then...suddenly she started to talk about her sex life...
at first it wasn't so obvious...
just the usual feeling of uncomfyness when 'making love'
to her hubby....(i assumed making love is sex)...
so i didn't make any comment about that...
just stating that women are complicated species...since all the vital
conception organs are hidden and stuff...
Then...she made some explicit comment...
which to me is OFFENSIVE....
Hello...i don't want to know about your sex life okay...
i see you like once in a while...and i do not
want to have unwelcome images in my mind every time i see you...
and your hubby....
but i get the feeling that she's trying to get me to be involved in some
dirty talks....
i chose to ignore the first sms hoping that she would
stop if i did not reply or take up
the banter...
i stick to other topics instead...about SM Teknik PD for instance...
but each time she would divert to that OFFENSIVE topic...
arrgghhh....i was getting sooooo uneasy about the whole thing...
But thinking that she's my neighbour...
i chose to ignore it...and didn't reply to the sms...
I was shocked when she quoted the 'big and long' words about her
other half....
and then...out of no where....
the number of times she *c....x* and how her other half
is slow to do so...
(i assumed that's what it was when she used the word 'keluar')
and having s...x with a certain race is so good because of
them being circumcised....
My eyes nearly popped out....
Gosh...i feel offended because she thinks that
i am comfortable reading about her sex life...
i nearly replied saying...have you even tried other people since
you are only married to ur hubby?
Bed said i should have done that....
(she being the fierce, outspoken lady that she is, bless her)
Well...i felt defiled...harassed even....
it is a form of sexual harassment surely....
before she went to bed she bade me goodnite...
so i did the same...
and that brief reply got another sexually suggestive statement...
'Tina...esok malam minggu...ahad tak kerja...
tak buat project ke...hehee...'
I was so indignant...
Chin was angry when i told him about the little episode...
i was apprehensive to tell him...
because to me...such thing should be kept private...
between the husband and wife...
we are after all...living in the east....
and we do not condone to talking about sex freely in such manner...
I am an openminded person ...yes...but...i stil feel that
what happen between husband and wife is sacred....
and should be kept that way...
This is not New York, for heaven sake...
and we are definitely NOT desperate housewives....
or sex and the city casts....
We especially do not share this kind of info with a casual
aquaintance...someone on nodding term...
and not hugging term....
Haih....Chin told me the next time she does that again...
just tell her off....
I would if she even dares to be explicit again...
and yesterday...she asked me about the baju kurung that she
had sewn...
i said it fits nicely...not too big and not too small...
and she could even use that statement to suggest something
sexual...or was it my suspicious mind that works overtime...
but tell me what u think of this...
'k, tina, besar sikit lagi best...hehe...'
Was i right to be suspicious....or is she merely referring to
my baju kurung size..
Do i read too much into that final statement?
3 comments:
OMG!
What is wrong with ur neigbour? If my mouth was able to hang open, my jaw would've dropped when I read about the kind of statements that she sms-ed to u. Does she need to fill a voyeuristic void in her by talking to some1, any1? Aiyoo...
i got the same expression when i received the sms....haih...i try to avoid her now...as much as i can...so i guess if my baju siap...i wont send any to her anymore...
omgggg! that poor lady! it looks like shes not very happy or have much friends. :( i hope u recover from this soon. pray she gets a friend who actually doesnt mind talking about it!x
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